Prologue

Unlike motor vehicles, humans do not come with an instruction manual. Parenting styles are subjective and individual to each culture and each family but there are many similarities. Such as: most parents want the best for their children. Most parents raise their children to respect and be respected.

As children of the few parents that aren’t worth their salt, it leaves them without a role model, a vision of how it is supposed to be to raise another human being. And then there are the parents who thought what they knew about raising children was the best way but then later found they were misled, leading to raising their children to become self-centered and entitled.

That’s where learning from a stranger’s mistakes comes in handy. We have had decades of evidence to show that what we know now may not be the right way.

Dr. Spock gave parents his idea of good parenting in his 1946 best selling book The Common Sense Book of Baby and Child Care, which helped shape the generations to follow, resulting in the generation that protested the Vietnam War. * (Britannia.com)

Teaching our young ones the true nature of the world has been corrupted by the big corporations to continue to repress our youth so they will be too tired to fight to get their rightful share of their hard earned labor. It’s up to us to discover our destiny through trials and tribulations.

Our brains are evolving, allowing us access to the higher parts of our innate super power previously only accessed after years of dedicated meditation. We are now able to reach meditation status at a quicker rate; enabling more humans to transform their own worlds via their mind and the quantum field.

When you have control, you can accomplish so much! Even when you become of age, you are still you, the vulnerable infant, that scared little kid, and that rebellious teenager. They don’t just go away when you grow up.

Trauma is Trauma

And then there is trauma. We all have had some trauma, whether little or big, it does not matter because trauma is trauma. It’s like saying she’s a little pregnant. Pregnant is pregnant, trauma is trauma. What makes something traumatic is not necessarily the action or event, it is the feelings and emotions that stay with you from the time of the action or event.

We have to transform the effects of those feelings and emotions to a form of power. We do that with education. Not the education you were subjected to as a student in childhood, but the unbiased education that you get from your body.

With so much misinformation given to us, even with our best interests at heart, (hopefully), by those who loved and/or cared for us as we were too young to do it ourselves, we have unknowingly been taught to be disingenuous with our health.

We were taught that eating a breakfast consisting of a bowl of cereal (often laden with chemicals and too much sugar) or eating a cup of yogurt pre-blended with fruit (and a ton of sugar) is what is healthy. We were given granola in place of potato crisps and Gatorade in place of soda pop. Both substitutions are worse than the thing they replaced.

We have taken on the beliefs of others as our own because we have seen things only through the lens of our own experience.

Because you will inevitably be sharing information with those younger than you, it is a must that you always seek the truth.

Don’t take everything anyone says for the truth, even me, without first turning on your own mind and maybe your computer, and do the necessary reasoning and research to bring you to a good, honest deduction, but don’t be afraid to keep an open mind as everything is not as it appears to be. It’s okay to change your current mindset when you have more information.

Why This Book?

Adulting is something we all have to do at one point or another. Why not do it with the knowledge from others who have made the journey, screwed up, bounced back and then realized that we don't need to go through all that?

This book is a step-by-step guide getting you from your childhood home and into adult life, complete with links to get you what you need to get started and beyond.

You will also discover the quantum reasons you may be stuck in a rut, a feeling, a situation. Knowing how your body and emotions work with the quantum field will give you a leg up in any situation you encounter as an adult.

This is like a cheat sheet to help you strengthen your determination to make the best life possible by giving you the tools most people spend years acquiring.

Don’t let the past dictate your future! Take control today!

In our lives, we have seen and known folks who've crossed to the "other" side. I'm not talking about dying, (well, maybe the death of your childhood.) I'm talking about the adult side. The adult side of life that teenagers have been relentlessly longing for.

Some gracefully enter adulthood as if they've done it a hundred times and others, well, they flounder and flail like a fish out of water.

People aren't born with a gene that makes them great adults, it's something you learn, mostly by trial and error. Lots of error that sometimes leads to a trial.

A great way to sum up what I've learned in my life: A little bit of pain and discomfort now will lead to a life of ease later. And a life of ease now will lead to a life of pain and discomfort later.

It's your choice. Choose wisely.

You have a lot of life ahead of you. Don't squander it. In everything you do, do it with a pleasing mental attitude. When people are grouchy when going about their life, it will rub off on others and often the wrong way.

When you are hoping for a life of happiness and success, act like you already have it and it will come quicker. We have the miraculous ability to literally mould our lives the way we choose by using the vibrations of our emotions.

More on that later, just keep that in mind. It is imperative to your future to keep a pleasant mental attitude.

This book was designed as a supplement to a parent’s teachings of the real world but for those whose parents were too busy or those who have no parents, this is a guide for you.

Not all of life's circumstances will be listed here because if they were, I'd never be done writing. Use this book as a guide, not a hard fast rule.

A Note on Pronouns

I intended this to include all humans, no matter the gender or personal pronoun, so I'd like forgiveness in those areas, as I couldn't possibly re-write this to personally include all 78 gender pronouns now available. (As of 2022)

Please feel free to change the pronouns accordingly as you read if it helps.

A Note on Truth

I'd also like to point out that I spent much of my last 9 years researching just about everything about humans. (You don't know what you don't know you don't know until you know.)

So, when I say I believe, I am saying that this is the truth to what I have come to understand with all the reading I have done. I didn't think it necessary to catalog my references as I was doing for my own self-improvement. Only later, realize I should write it down for others.

Years ago, there was a cultural phenomenon where we used to hand important knowledge down to the next generation, usually in the form of having the children follow in the footsteps of their parents.

The world moved at a slower pace then, literally, so it was easy just mimicking the generation before us.

But what happens when the world evolves but the mindset doesn't?

How can we follow in the footsteps of someone who didn't know how to adult?

How can we even consider emulating prior generations if the knowledge they received is no longer the "correct" knowledge? In the fast-moving world of today, yesterday's education is no longer relevant to store in the already overwhelmed brain of a young adult.

What was once right, may not be right anymore as the human species evolved. Take, for instance, it was common to throw away babies that didn’t meet the standards of the times. It was also common to own another human being. Although we know it is not right, but it is still happening today.

Things change quickly now and when you, yourself, are trying to keep up with the changes as a parent or even just a human, it is hard to know what to pass on.

After all, the world is evolving faster than we ever imagined. Since I do not have the ability to see the future, some of the websites and maybe even the information will be outdated by the time you read this.

The topics and links* included were relevant at the time of writing. (2022) Included are seemingly timeless things such as mindset, nutrition, communication, and basic finances.

These important topics and more are in this series of fundamentals with a quantum twist.

Book One is a compact starter book for adults. Stand by for the in-depth volumes containing more valuable information from the “adult side” of life.

This is the Quandamentals.
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